
So I thought I’d start with some favourite flowers (everywhere at the moment) and another poem from my old notebook, this time from 1986 when I found myself having to face the end of my marriage with two young children:
LOVE
Love, when you’re young
is so special ~ a promise
for eternity that has no limits.
Heart, soul and mind
devoted to just one person,
~ so innocent and pure.
The second time around
can be as good but you
must remember youth
~ how you felt so long ago.
And it’s possible to be unlucky
but the third and fourth and fifth
time can be learnt all over again.
You just have to be resilient!
Frances Macaulay Forde © 1986
Those two young children turned out to be my saviours ~ they taught me so much, kept me going when I wanted to just lay down and give up. I am so proud of them both; they have given me the ultimate gift ~ beautiful grandchildren.
And for those of you who suffered, like I did, it IS possible to love again although it took me 17 years of being on my own to believe it.
Even though I actually predicted a second time for myself, in this poem, I didn’t believe it at the time ~ I think I was trying to give myself hope… in 1986 I swore off romance and love for good!
After 28 years the man I was in love with (and should probably have married) in 1975 and on another continent (Africa) found me ~ we’ve just celebrated our 12th wedding anniversary.
So with my returned love and a family full of love, I look forward to what 2016 will bring. I know it’s going to be all good!
@FrancesMForde #FrancesMacForde #FrancesMacaulayForde #Happy2016 #Poem:Love #1968Notebook
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